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How to avoid nervousness during the interview?

Well, being nervous will not usually help you reach your purpose successfully, therefore you should always try your best to overcome such negative manners…you do not have to look at the interview as something scary!! There is nothing to be scared of…

Personally, I have heard about lots of people who really get nervous, unable to sleep the night before the interview, having a terrible stomachache, and experience other stuff that would definitely turn up their day into a nightmare!! Actually, I myself used to get scared from even hearing the concept itself and I even thought of ways to get rid of interviews!! However, things got the other way around; I began to do an online search since a few days ago and amazing things just happened!!

Yeah, I found that, having an interview is considered to be a wonderful step that should ever be remembered… you just need to prepare yourself completely (I’ll tell you how to prepare yourself in one of the next articles) and relax your mind on the day before your interview.

Well, I have an idea; why don’t you try to visualize the day of the interview!! Hmmm, sounds curious!! Well, you CAN make it if you really WANT... do you know that, most of the champions visualize their dreams!!! Well, you can program your mind to visualize the POSITIVE result, and it will happen in reality!!! Yeah things will be on your side if you act and program your mind positively. For example, on the day before the interview, try yourself to stay away from a crowd area, relax your mind, close your eyes and fly into the day of the interview; imagine that you have arrived to the building, been welcomed by your employer with a sweet smile shower your face while shaking the hands, saying stuff like “how are you sir X” then imagine the questions been asked (I’ll elaborate more on the questions in another article) and you have answered confidently, and then imagine been impressed by the employer through the usage of facial expressions or saying stuff like “you will hear the good news soon”

Well, you might say that I’m just a full of imagination and no such thing of sweetness might ever happen. However, I swear that visualizing your mind positively is one of the most successful steps ever happened and the majority of the successful people around the world use this step. In fact, I myself use this step in approaching different positions too... so, why don’t you try it yourself!! You got nothing to lose if you try it…

It is all about the matter of trying if you train your mind and keep trying and trying and trying until you reach your point. Yeah, trying to be self confident is the solution to avoid nervousness. So, are you ready to do that?

Ok, why don’t you treat your interview as if it is your first date!! Well, I know it sounds a bit weird, but attending an interview is like dating your lover for the first time. You don’t know much about your lover, but you tend to build a relationship that leads to marriage and a happy life ever after. The same thing goes with your interview; you don’t know much about your position and the employer, but you tend to build a successful job through working with your employer. Therefore, you should be confident, dress properly, speak intelligently and just be yourself to get the attention of your employer or your lover J…

So, what are you waiting for? Go a head, train yourself, and keep on practicing in front of a mirror, or in front of a family member or through using a video camera. REMEMBER, keeping on practice is the best solution to reach your success…so, do not GIVE UP PRACTICING…

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