The obvious signs of unconfident personalities

1. The unconfident personality can easily be noticed if the person doesn’t posses the ability of making decisions… such decisions are always made for him or her, and never done BY him or her! They might find lots of hesitations and confusing rejections before making a decision or saying “yes or no”…we always refer to this person as being “mummy’s or daddy’s baby”, because he or she refers back to his parents for deciding every single thing and it doesn’t help to build confidence…

Well, don’t misjudge me… I’m not saying that, we shouldn’t refer back to our parents’ ideas! However, we should listen and pay attention to whatever they say because they know much better than us, and they have lots of experiences too… we should listen to them because listening to their advices, comments, and ideas help very much in making decisions that are based on wise ideas…

Such confidence doesn’t only help in making job decisions, but rather, it helps in dealing with relationships as well…it shows that, we usually love very much to be in touch with people who have self confidence; who are able to think carefully before making any decisions… such a self confidence is considered to be one of the most important elements of attraction! As you know, attraction doesn’t have to be formed in the shape of the person’s physical attraction only; but rather, attraction can be seen in the person’s confidence…

2. Another sign is presented in the way they characterize themselves; they keep on feeling bad and pessimistic…they never appreciate their deeds, and they look down at themselves… they keep on comparing themselves to others thinking that others are much better than them… they hesitate and nod in every situation, and look down when walking, talking, etc.

3. Unconfident person is the one who keeps on saying yes to every stressful situation… who gets scared of other people and doesn’t have the ability to build his own decisions and ideas…

4. It also refers to the person who judges his physical attraction negatively thinking that people will always make fun of his appearance! Who cannot group himself and who always thinks so badly and blame the world for his own living…

There are actually lots of signs, but the above signs are among the definition of vote of no confidence…if you have any comments you want to share, please don’t hesitate to share it with me…