How to act confidently?

1. A confident career builder is the one who never pessimist himself…

2. A confident career builder should try to never let himself down and try to think positively…

3. a confident career builder is the one who blocks his ears from others’ criticisms… even though, paying attentions to others’ views seem to be important as it helps us to improve ourselves, but sometimes such views tend to present otherwise! That is why we should try to be careful and listen only to the views that deserve our attentions… it seems to be a bit hard, but we have to try as there is nothing to be lost with trying! I myself have to keep on trying this method as I always lose my control and get upset if I happened to receive negative messages that aim to destroy my attention as well as confidence…

4. A successful career builder is the one who uses his facial expressions regularly, such as; smiles, eye contact, walking with confidence, speaking carefully and paying attentions to others…

5. A confident career builder never get himself to worry over others’ disapprovals… it seems the majority of the people get worried and lack lots of confidence at this point because we always get worried over how others judge us during conducting presentations, seminars, etc… according to what the experts have said; we as a presenters lose our confidence during presentations, talks, etc because we get scared of what others think of our performances! BUT, others never think the same way because they are afraid of how WE are going to judge them when their turns come! Hence, we should try to get rid of such myths and try to focus on our own action instead…

6. A confident career builder should try to fight fears, and build a strong personality that is protected from others’ poison thoughts and weapons! Such weapons are always presented in their negative messages…

7. A successful career builder should be free to take new challenges, able to present his thoughts publicly, fight fears and able to hide his nervousness…

8. Last but not least, a successful career builder always gets back to his counselor, a trusted friend or a family member to help him out…

The above elements are formed from my own experience as well as others’ points of view…besides, if you have any comments or ideas you want to share; please don’t hesitate to share it with me…