How to act confidently?

1. A confident career builder is the one who never pessimist himself…

2. A confident career builder should try to never let himself down and try to think positively…

3. a confident career builder is the one who blocks his ears from others’ criticisms… even though, paying attentions to others’ views seem to be important as it helps us to improve ourselves, but sometimes such views tend to present otherwise! That is why we should try to be careful and listen only to the views that deserve our attentions… it seems to be a bit hard, but we have to try as there is nothing to be lost with trying! I myself have to keep on trying this method as I always lose my control and get upset if I happened to receive negative messages that aim to destroy my attention as well as confidence…

4. A successful career builder is the one who uses his facial expressions regularly, such as; smiles, eye contact, walking with confidence, speaking carefully and paying attentions to others…

5. A confident career builder never get himself to worry over others’ disapprovals… it seems the majority of the people get worried and lack lots of confidence at this point because we always get worried over how others judge us during conducting presentations, seminars, etc… according to what the experts have said; we as a presenters lose our confidence during presentations, talks, etc because we get scared of what others think of our performances! BUT, others never think the same way because they are afraid of how WE are going to judge them when their turns come! Hence, we should try to get rid of such myths and try to focus on our own action instead…

6. A confident career builder should try to fight fears, and build a strong personality that is protected from others’ poison thoughts and weapons! Such weapons are always presented in their negative messages…

7. A successful career builder should be free to take new challenges, able to present his thoughts publicly, fight fears and able to hide his nervousness…

8. Last but not least, a successful career builder always gets back to his counselor, a trusted friend or a family member to help him out…

The above elements are formed from my own experience as well as others’ points of view…besides, if you have any comments or ideas you want to share; please don’t hesitate to share it with me…

Building your self-esteem

Building self-esteem is considered to be an essential step in the career world! But such a confidence might not always be available to every personality due to particular situations… so, the following are some steps which would definitely help in rebuilding our self confidence…I myself believe on the below items and hoping you too will have the same attraction…

1. A successful career builder shouldn’t put high expectations on themselves, because under any unexpected events you might not reach the particular step! I’m not trying to underestimate your ability and your powerful mind… I’m only trying to picture the otherwise of the situation… I know lots of people who dreamed for reaching particular positions and they were full of confidence and energy, but something unexpected happened and has changed their dreaming span and became very upset… so, try to be wise and reach for what you can expect…never jump to the end with one step! You have gotten to train your mind to think clearly as well as positively…

2. Try to be friend with colleagues whom are full of confidence and who can teach you to become a successful career builder that is rich with self-esteem…

3. Never think that you are alone in this world and has got to handle everything alone... a successful career builder admits when he or she have reaches their limits and never says “yes” if has gotten the right to say “no”… a successful career builder doesn’t have confusing rejections…

4. A successful career builder should not hide his or her success… it is wonderful to acknowledge them as it increases the temptation of working plus it helps very much in building self-confidence… so, a successful career builder should celebrate every successful step and let others realize his or her achievements…

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The best way for choosing your career

1. As a future career builder, you have to set your goals first… your goals are supposed to be directed with the world’s needs! In which, a career builder should look for the job that has future benefits…a career that can offer you a good payment + healthy life…

2. A successful career builder should choose the job he or she prefers, because, if the career builder has been forced into a particular field, the career builder will never be able to succeed! But that doesn’t mean the career builder should block his or her mind from any advices! He or she may listen and pay attention to others’ advices as well as experiences to gain more knowledge and become wiser than ever… BUT, the decision at the end should be YOURS…

3. If you have any doubts, you can always list a number of choices and imagine deciding otherwise!

4. Last but not least, the world is full of information and you can easily do a career search by getting your self with a computer and do some Google search… or make an appointment with a counselor or talk to a family member or a trusted friend or you can even set your question in Yahoo answers… REMEMBER, to become a successful career builder, you have to do your homework and get the job that is perfectly suite your ability and interests…

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How should a career builder deal with difficult colleagues?

A career builder has to know the tips of dealing with difficult colleagues… it sounds to be very dramatic for the career builder, but he or she has gotten to be knowledgeable in dealing with different areas in their careers…

1. A successful career builder should handle any stressful working situation carefully! A career builder should not get scared or angry of complicated colleagues; rather, a successful career builder should be optimistic and have self confidence…

2. A career builder should try to reward those difficult people with smiles, greetings, etc as a way of icebreaking…

3. A manageable career builder is the one who can bridge the gap and try to understand their personalities and needs… as you know, most of the difficult colleagues appear to be such difficult personalities because they want the career builder to achieve something…so, your turn is to try find out the perfect way to achieve that particular step in your career…

4. Last but not least, confident career builder is the one who has confidence and has the ability to raise his or her ideas and thoughts clearly without having any sense of scariness or self doubts…

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Career builder in the limelight

Career builder is really important… I have read some points related to career builders addressed by a number of experts whom have agreed upon the following elements…

1. Increase your network… you have to get to know your colleagues in other departments and don’t stick yourself with few friends or with whom you work only… just be friendly with everyone whom you happened to meet up with…such a career network will help very much in dealing with projects…

2. In terms to the projects; if you happened to be selected as the leader of a particular project, you should then try to get your group members from different departments, instead of sticking yourself with a particular group members… besides, try to select those whom are well known for being hard working, reliable, and trusted…

3. Try to update your mind with new technologies… if you get to be knowledgeable in different areas, and present your current ideas as well as experiences, you will then become a well known in your working place and it will also be added to your proficiency status…but that doesn’t mean to get involved into every single detail, rather, try to present yourself with your current activities instead of showing up all over the place without making useful steps… I know some people who aim to be seen all over the place, and get themselves involved everywhere without accomplishing much in advance, and people get just tired of seeing their faces everywhere! It doesn’t have anything to do with jealousy… it is just that, people will respect you more if you keep on dealing with activities that are related to your major instead of interfering with outside events and especially if you no nothing about it or if it is outside your interests and activities…

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Developing self confidence

1. We have to change the way we think… we have to think positively, and try to never feel pessimistic… this point is considered to be among the most important elements of improving self confidence, because if we try to change the system of our thinking, we will then start to see the world with a positive eye! Besides, it will even help us to get rid of depression and stressfulness…

2. We have to watch the way we talk… we have to learn to speak positively and try to get rid of confusing rejections… in which, we don’t have to keep on saying “yes” and approve to every situation when we would rather say “no”! There is nothing wrong in disapproving to a person who asks a favor from us on a busy day! If we say “no”, doesn’t mean we hate this person, but rather, we refuse because we don’t have time to help on that particular day! Or instead of saying “no”, we can say something like this “well, I cannot make it right now as I’m in the middle of something, but I will try my best to make it sooner”…

3. We should try to stop judging ourselves based on what has happened… we don’t have to keep on blaming the world for our misfortune… rather, we have to change the way we act… acting positively is an important step toward building self confidence! Besides, keep on rewarding ourselves with every achievement… I myself for instance, would prefer to dance in my room with a loud music or eat a favorite sandwich, or have some chit chat with friends, or do anything that makes me happy and energized…

4. Last but not least, a counselor can always help us with whatever we have… it is really important to have some consultations with a counselor, trusted friend or a family member to open up our worries and doubts, as it is not healthy to keep it inside of us… we have to talk, and listen to others’ advices and experiences to surround ourselves with a healthy environment that is rich of comforts, smiles, and relaxations…

The obvious signs of unconfident personalities

1. The unconfident personality can easily be noticed if the person doesn’t posses the ability of making decisions… such decisions are always made for him or her, and never done BY him or her! They might find lots of hesitations and confusing rejections before making a decision or saying “yes or no”…we always refer to this person as being “mummy’s or daddy’s baby”, because he or she refers back to his parents for deciding every single thing and it doesn’t help to build confidence…

Well, don’t misjudge me… I’m not saying that, we shouldn’t refer back to our parents’ ideas! However, we should listen and pay attention to whatever they say because they know much better than us, and they have lots of experiences too… we should listen to them because listening to their advices, comments, and ideas help very much in making decisions that are based on wise ideas…

Such confidence doesn’t only help in making job decisions, but rather, it helps in dealing with relationships as well…it shows that, we usually love very much to be in touch with people who have self confidence; who are able to think carefully before making any decisions… such a self confidence is considered to be one of the most important elements of attraction! As you know, attraction doesn’t have to be formed in the shape of the person’s physical attraction only; but rather, attraction can be seen in the person’s confidence…

2. Another sign is presented in the way they characterize themselves; they keep on feeling bad and pessimistic…they never appreciate their deeds, and they look down at themselves… they keep on comparing themselves to others thinking that others are much better than them… they hesitate and nod in every situation, and look down when walking, talking, etc.

3. Unconfident person is the one who keeps on saying yes to every stressful situation… who gets scared of other people and doesn’t have the ability to build his own decisions and ideas…

4. It also refers to the person who judges his physical attraction negatively thinking that people will always make fun of his appearance! Who cannot group himself and who always thinks so badly and blame the world for his own living…

There are actually lots of signs, but the above signs are among the definition of vote of no confidence…if you have any comments you want to share, please don’t hesitate to share it with me…

How to choose your career?

Career builder is the first step that should be built by YOU because you are the one who is getting into the chosen field…Deciding which career to build is considered to be an essential step that should be taken into consideration… so, you should get enough information about the job in general… you should go into the area that has a successful demands in today’s society, and brings to you with lots of emotional and financial comforts to support you as well as your family… when choosing your career, don’t go for jobs that don’t bring any benefits to you in the future, even if you are very interested in it… interests come later and should not get itself to interfere with the career that you plan to go for… for instance, if you love to be surrounded with kids; don’t go for kindergarten when you have a family to support! Go for school teachings instead… don’t let your emotions control your mind!

well that doesn’t mean, spend your daily life into unwanted job; you need to go for the job you like and has lots of benefits, but there are lots of people who stick on jobs that never bring any benefits to them, and they don’t want to leave it for such stupid reasons; entertainments, relaxation, friends and etc! I myself don’t understand their planning life and I keep asking myself; don’t they have families who need financial support! Don’t they need to save some money for the retirement age! Don’t they need to enjoy their life and travel somewhere during vacations! Don’t they want to wear nice clothes and eat in nice restaurants and buy gifts to families and friends on special occasions! How are they going to supply such needs when they don’t even have self financial support!

Therefore, you need to do a career search and come up with a list of careers that would provide you with financial security… you can even go for a career test to help you in making the right decision… you can test yourself online by logging on career test websites, or you can even consult a counselor or a trusted friend or whomever you rely on… you have to compete with the time! Today’s time is totally different from yesterday’s time, and tomorrow will bring new changes as well…so, if you don’t focus your mind in getting a job that will suits your needs for today and tomorrow, you will then be behind the curtain…

Well, don’t panic as you still have the chance to change your world positively! Just grab yourself and take courses! Don’t convince yourself that you don’t have time! You do have huge time if you get yourself organized… you only need to reschedule your time and you will find that you have plenty of hours to be spent in your job, courses, family, friends, activities and etc… you have nothing to lose and lots to gain if you keep on trying…just think about it and you will see how life is full of surprises and hopes! So go for colleges and universities and you will notice how life is such a wonderful place to live in…